by Chennai based Astrologer K.B.Gopalakrishnan

21st october, 2008, 4:00pm

Many people say that in the past people were united. Now in the current trend many people fight with close relatives and take their friends as their family members. Many people consider their relatives as spiritual muffs and low in consciousness due to bickering and fighting. The following behavior attitude will aggravate the family disunity karma

Speaking ill of relatives- many people who attend marriages or any functions speak ill of other relatives. They talk or speak ill of the other person’s weakness and feel jealous of other person good life. If you speak ill of any person, the negative karma between you and the other person will thicken. Fights will occur depending on the energy level. Basically 12 times if one speaks ill of someone then fight will happen.

Picking up fight during function or rituals – many family function start with happy note but as the event progress there is pain anger and plain humiliation. Many times people do not adjust or cooperate and everyone wants importance. Some of the relatives go to the extent of picking up fight in crucial moment and do arm twisting tactics to gain importance.

Feeling jealous of other person’s success and Feeling good about the other person failures and short coming- this is exactly opposite of the bodhi satva vow, where one takes the other person suffering and feels happy with other person’s success. Many of the relatives feel that their family relatives should not be appreciated. In the name of jokes everyone hurts everyone. I was surprised when someone buys a car or house most relatives are unhappy.

People compare themselves. They think that they should be better than anyone. They also feel that they should be best among all relatives both in sector and class. This is not possible and it will only bring pain and suffering mentally.

Reduction in family karma

Just chant ohm shanthi shanthi shanthi ohm 108 times every day for family unity.