by Chennai based astrologer K.B.Gopalakrishnan

25th MAY, 5:11 AM

One of the common problems faced by the humans is the acceptance and understanding of self by other. Even people living together for many years are very conscious of this fact that people do not understand and accept each other. But why is this happening in the humanity.

First of all everyone have various capacity. They can be classified as follows

• The physical capacities

• The mental capacities

• The emotional capacities and

• The spiritual capacities.

Physical capacity includes being active, flexible, stamina and strength of the body. This varies from people to people depending upon age and other factors. This capacity and its variation is easily accepted by people.

The mental ability like concentration, absorption, assimilation, digestion, memory, interest, skillfulness varies according to age, gender and back ground. Someone can read many books and remember many words, quote and verbatim with very little effort. Normally Brahmins as a race have this capacity. Of course this capacity is not accepted by people. We want our children spouse to be like us and believe that everyone should have equal talent, ability and skill. This is very untrue and leads to comparison which is meaningless and painful.

The emotional ability like compassion, forgiveness, kindness, empathy, helpfulness and service varies from people to people depending on the size of heart chakra. Many people can love half quarter and they cannot love many people. Some of them can love 3- 4 people in their life. They have so much of fear and delusion in life. When one meditates then only ability to love people increases multifold.

The spiritual ability like following a guru, having sadhana and doing practice regularly will vary for people. Many people can be with a guru without much understanding. One needs spiritual capacity which is similar to the gift in cricket for sachin tendulkar.

Therefore expect people according to their level. Some times it is not easy due to third eye clogging. One needs to pray after which understanding happens easily.